Dr. Edith Eger, a well-respected psychologist, has written two books, The Choice and The Gift, and has specialized in treating people with severe trauma.
These are some valuable notes for awareness and wisdom.
* Awful things happen to us and they hurt. These devastating experiences are also opportunities to regroup and decide what we want for our lives.
* Healing comes from freeing ourselves from certain thoughts and feelings that keep us trapped in the trauma.
* Freeing yourself from victimhood – “Suffering is universal but victimhood is optional.” …instead of asking “Why me?” we can ask “What now?”
* Freeing yourself from unresolved grief – It is important to let yourself grieve. Neither denying it nor being totally absorbed by it is healthy. Resolving grief means to release our sense of responsibility for all the things that weren’t up to us and to come to terms with the choices we have made that cannot be undone.
* Freeing yourself from resentment – Often the anger and resentment we have toward another may have more to do with our own issues resulting from unresolved grief or unfinished business.
* Freeing yourself from paralyzing fear – Many of us live a fear-based life. Our thoughts and behaviors are rooted in fear…living in constant fear keeps us from growing. Sometimes fear does not go away, but the best we can do is keep it from totally dominating our lives.
* Freeing yourself from judgment – We should look inward and examine the judgments we hold for ourselves as well as others. If we are being judgmental, we are unable to be compassionate.
* Freeing yourself from hopelessness – There is always hope. What we hope for may change with time, but hope is always there. It helps to remember that we have survived difficult situations before and that we can do it again.
* Freeing yourself for not forgiving – Forgiveness is something that we do for ourselves, not for others. When we do so, it frees us from the past. Releasing our anger and the people who have harmed us in the past can help to set us free.
* The search to make meaning in my life by helping others to make meaning, to heal so that I could heal others, to heal others so that I could heal myself.
* Suffering is inevitable and universal. But how we respond to suffering differs.
* The truth is, we will have unpleasant experiences in our lives, we will make mistakes, we won’t always get what we want. This is part of being human.
The problem—and the foundation of our persistent suffering—is the belief that discomfort, mistakes, disappointments signal something about our worth.
* Self-acceptance was the hardest part of healing for me.
Sources:
1. Twelve Steps for Healing Trauma..from Dr. Edith Eger’s “The Gift”; Psychology Today, Nov 2020
2. How to cope with grief..; Business Insider, Nov 2020
3. The Choice, Dr. Edith Eger
PURPOSE & IMPACT
Author: Tojo Eapen (page 2 of 10)
These are selected notes from the book, “Building Conflict Competent Teams” (Craig Runde, Tim Flanagan; 2008).
Reappraising What’s Happening
“We often think that others’ motives are worse than they actually are, and this causes us to feel threatened and get upset. Looking at the situation to find less sinister motives can dampen your emotions. This process is referred to as reframing; that is, you consider the situation from new frames of reference.
It is associated with a psychological concept called cognitive reappraisal, described by a quote from Marcus Aurelius: “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
Cognitive reappraisal means reinterpreting the meaning of what you see or hear. You may initially construe another person’s actions as hostile to your interests. Perhaps you think they are moving in on your turf or trying to make you look bad in front of others. Although this is certainly possible, there may be innocent reasons for their actions. Research has shown that reappraising situations can lessen emotional tension. In particular, changes in brain activity are analogous to those that occur when a person uses reflection and mindfulness techniques. When this happens, negative emotions lessen and more positive emotions emerge….
Team leaders can have a profound impact on the emotional climate of their teams. Leaders who demonstrate positive moods and effective emotional control can create a positive climate within their teams. When a leader conveys news, her tone and demeanor may have greater impact than the content of the message. The team leader plays a critical role, but all members of the team have to work together to address conflict effectively. They need to participate in developing and upholding team norms, which support and empower individual team members to step in when they see relationship conflict emerging that can harm the team. A team member who sees other teammates acting in ways that are breaching trust or contributing to destructive conflict can intercede and remind the others of the team norms for how to deal with conflict… “
According to a recent Korn Ferry Briefings podcast (The Frenzy To Find Work), around 77% of job seekers were ‘ghosted’ (abruptly cutting off contact/all communication) by companies last year. Studies from the platform Indeed also indicate similar percentages in recent years.
According to a report from the hiring platform Greenhouse, around 45% of job candidates have been ghosted after an initial conversation with a recruiter. Researchers also found that candidates from historically underrepresented backgrounds are 62% more likely to be ghosted after a job interview.
These studies may be U.S. focused but I’m guessing this aspect of India market is not different.
During recent years, we saw companies complaining about candidates doing the same. When the job markets are strong, the pendulum tends to shift.
All parties seem to be overly focused on the short term. The reasons for ‘ghosting’ on either side could be many. This leads to classic “Lose-Lose” situations.
How can we think “Win-Win”?
Companies need to figure out at a bare minimum, to use technology (most tools nowadays support this) effectively to at least inform/update the candidates on where they stand (even if it’s a short message). Behaviors/habits of recruiters/recruitment teams need to be aligned. In many cases, these teams are short staffed and therefore, recruiters tend to focus/prioritise completely on closing open roles. Companies need to ensure that their brand value and trust do not erode by ignoring this important aspect.
Similarly, candidates also have a responsibility to inform companies on where they stand in terms of their decision making.
Think long term, win-win. This builds engagement and effectiveness both ways.
Have you observed greed in leadership? How has that impacted/influenced your feeling of trust and relationship with that leader, your organisation, yourself?
These are selected notes from the Manfred F. R. Kets de Vries, Distinguished Clinical Professor of Leadership Development and Organisational Change, INSEAD (from the article, ‘Is Greed Destroying Your Soul?’)
* Greed may have a purpose, according to evolutionary psychologists. They believe that, by pushing us to amass status-signalling possessions, greed can help us attract a mate and thus perpetuate our genetic code.
* I prefer to look at greed as a coping mechanism. In my interactions with greedy people, I have observed that many are trying to fill an inner void or solve another emotional problem.
* Many greedy people obsessively pursue wealth as a substitute for what they feel is lacking inside them. But they ignore the high price that comes with greediness…
*…the greedier we become, the more we advance on the path of self-destruction.
*…like the proverbial leaking bucket that can’t be filled, the personal costs can be high. Far too often, greed comes with stress, exhaustion, anxiety, depression and despair. In addition, it can lead to maladaptive behaviour patterns such as gambling, hoarding, trickery and even theft.
In the corporate world, as John Grant wrote, “fraud is the daughter of greed.”
* Some believe that without a dose of greed, a given person, community or society may lack the motivation to move forward. I believe that, as with most things in life, managing greed is about balance. Like all potentially destructive human drives, greed must be tempered by positive social norms, such as generosity.
* Unchecked greed can destroy the soul of humanity like a great cancer, metastasising throughout society. The victory of greed over compassion may ultimately cause our civilisation’s downfall.
* Society’s ambivalence about greed makes it difficult to “treat” greedy people. After all, many view greed and its related traits – such as ambition and material success – as desirable rather than a potential mental health problem. It is not always easy to explain the harm caused by excessive greed…
There is still such a thing as free will. We all have a choice.
* If you can’t be content with what you have, you’re unlikely to be happy with more.
* One of the most difficult tasks for greedy people is learning to be selfish in a proper way. They need to pay attention to their inner self. It requires persistence, patience, humility, courage and commitment. But a long-term investment in the self can be a powerful antidote to greed and other forms of addiction.
Toxic work environments can be dangerous, result in physical and mental health issues, and impact sustainable business results (often missed in the short term). Are they more widespread that we assume?
Poor leadership could be one of the leading causes and indicators.
Many will experience, are or would already have experienced a challenging, toxic work environment or leader at some point in their career. That can be debilitating and intense. It may also change you. It is difficult to understand pain until you’ve experienced it yourself.
* Among the top Predictors of Employee Turnover During the Great Resignation, professors from MIT Sloan and NYU Stern found (2022) that a toxic culture is 10.4 times more likely to contribute to attrition than compensation. A toxic corporate culture is by far the strongest predictor of industry-adjusted attrition.
* From a poll of 1,000 UK employees (2021), 7 in 10 Brits shared they’ve worked in a toxic environment at some stage of their career. According to Oak Engage’s Toxic Workplace Report (2023), 75% of UK employees admit they have experienced a toxic workplace culture. 87% agreed that a toxic workplace culture has had a negative impact on their mental health and 73% agreed that a toxic workplace culture has contributed to their burnout.
* According to a poll (2023) of more than 1,300 U.S. adults conducted by online career platform Muse, nearly two-thirds of workers have faced so-called toxic work environments.
* According to Talent Works (2022), the majority of women in technology have experienced toxic work environments, with 21% experiencing it frequently.
* According to one survey in India, tech workers are willing to accept lower salaries and even take pay cuts, if it means being a part of a company with a non-toxic work culture. In another one (2023), 87 per cent felt work-life balance is top priority for combatting toxic work culture and 31 per cent attribute pressure at the workplace as one of the main concerns for mental health issues.
What approaches have worked for you, to effectively manage through a toxic work environment?
Artificial Intelligence (AI) can help usher in a new era of human resource management, where data analytics, machine learning and automation can work together to save time, and provide information, insights and recommendations in near real-time.1 According to Gartner, 81% of HR leaders have explored or implemented artificial intelligence (AI) solutions to improve process efficiency within their organizations. Gartner expects generative AI solutions to become embedded in current and new HR technology providers in the next one to three years. Generative AI could first begin to appear in the natural language processing (NLP) space (virtual assistants, chatbots, data processing etc.).2 The Oracle and Future Workplace AI at Work Global Study 2019 found that 50% of workers were already using some form of AI at work.3
Potential Shifts in HR Ways of Working
Artificial intelligence will have an effect on the work conducted by the HR function, across the employee life cycle. This includes HR operations from onboarding to exit, spanning across talent acquisition, employee engagement, learning and development, total rewards, talent management and service management.
In talent acquisition, an AI algorithm could predict which sourcing channels would most likely attract the right candidates for a specific skill set or role, optimise sourcing spend, and suggest employee profiles which may hold higher probability of success and fit for an organization.4 On the other side, it could alert the candidates with the right skill sets to available jobs. In learning and career development, employees could get curated development and personalized recommendations that maximize career potential. Instructional design could also be impacted, with increased accessibility, flexibility and convenience. In compensation, AI could help analyze a wealth of data points relative to the local market and competitor data. It could provide analytics and recommendations on relevant benefits. AI-powered HR chatbots or assistants could help empower employees with quick, efficient service support.5 Real time inputs on performance at the individual, team and organization level, engagement and culture, leading to indicators on organizational outcomes would be impactful. As the size of HR teams get smaller, AI assistants could guide managers and leaders on right approaches for managing performance and high performing teams. Available external environment data could be analysed for proactive decisions and actions. Applications that use generative AI capabilities (such as ChatGPT, Bard, DALL-E) could improve the efficiency of the HR team and function.
Talent Strategy
Since fewer people will be needed to complete the same amount of work, it would be realistic to anticipate lesser headcount needs over time. The nature and content of work itself would change. Jobs disrupted by AI may need to be redesigned to encompass broader, comprehensive competencies with a more compelling employee value proposition.6
To meet these quickly evolving needs, leaders may need to revisit the six kinds of investments (six ‘B’s) needed to upgrade talent – Buy, Build, Borrow, Bound, Bounce, Bind.7 For the Build/training approach, organizations may focus on upskilling, reskilling and new skilling initiatives. Reskilling involves training employees on an entirely new set of skills to prepare them to take on a different role. This typically occurs when workers’ previous tasks or responsibilities become irrelevant. As opposed to reskilling’s 180-degree pivot, upskilling occurs when workers improve upon existing skills and deepen their abilities and impact within their area of expertise. The term new skilling represents all types of continuous learning to help build high-demand skills. A new skilling mindset keeps both a workforce and a company agile by ensuring learning initiatives are relevant to future business objectives.8 Performance expectations could vary significantly in newly configured roles and environment.
AI would influence employee expectations about how employees interact with HR teams and tools. Over time, this shift will lead to rethinking the purpose, objectives, skillset and structure of HR roles and the overall function. Along with the increased requirements, leading/managing with the updated knowledge of psychology, neuroscience, culture, change, leadership, organization behaviour, business acumen and technology will give influential HR leaders and teams a distinct advantage. Change management could become a critical competency requirement for the whole team.
Workforce Planning
Since AI investments will lead to the obsolescence of many tasks, while creating the need for new skills and roles, this shift involves proactive planning, change management and updating the capabilities of the overall workforce. Proactive workforce planning based on a deep analysis of phases of change becomes critical for the success of any organization. New, specialized, complex jobs may emerge where generative AI and related technologies are used, resulting in competitive advantage.
Culture Intersection
A major change like this cannot be possible without shift in mindsets and behaviours. This inevitably intersects with organizational culture elements. HR teams that proactively assess, plan and facilitate the culture and mindset shift for the organization would play a fundamental role in facilitating this transformation successfully.
Concerns
While AI is creating excitement, there are concerns about aspects like accuracy, privacy, bias and reliability. Any information posted may be used to further train the model, raising concerns about confidentiality. Generative AI learns based on historical data, and historical patterns of data may reflect biases. Instances of bias in AI tools have come to light, offering case studies in the limitations of machine learning (eg. talent acquisition tool bias).9 Recent guidance from The Equal Opportunity Employment Commission (EEOC) in the U.S. clarified that bias in AI tools may violate discrimination protections, and employers who use them could be held accountable.10
Therefore, it becomes critical to involve all points of view while planning and implementing AI adoption. While the value and transformation potential of GenAI are real, so too are the technical, implementation, and change management challenges. The time-saving potential can vary significantly based on industry-specific contexts. Consulting firm BCG recently found that support functions such as technology, operations, and customer support showed the highest potential productivity gains from GenAI deployment. Looking at GenAI activities across the company will help to ensure that the sum of efforts is greater than its parts, leading to transformative change rather than incremental refinement.11 The true potential of mature AI solutions may take time. Initial rollouts might result in less-than-desired experiences. Organizations must also acknowledge and guide about potential risks of generative AI and using sensitive or confidential data. A recent incident of sensitive data leak from a large corporation accidentally to ChatGPT, led to the company crack down on usage of the generative AI services.12 AI is also susceptible to hacking. The ethical and fairness elements have to be thoroughly assessed and analysed. Government regulation, policy, and international standards also play a fundamental role in our society.13. Labor relations and unions could also play a key role in this transformation.
While this is an exciting time for HR leaders and teams to be part of this evolution, prioritising change agility, curiosity, experimentation, growth mindset, risk awareness and development for self, team and the organization will increase chances of success. Modernizing talent capabilities within the function will become non-negotiable. When unique human capability, diversity and potential are augmented (not replaced) by AI, the stage for immense creativity and innovation is established. It looks clear that this is the beginning of a long, transformational journey and any future HR strategy without incorporating AI would seem incomplete.
ChatGPT – Inputs about AI Applications in HR
Since this is an article on AI, I gathered consolidated inputs below from ChatGPT regarding AI applications in HR. Readers may assess the similarities and differences between the above and below sections. I see the value in augmenting insights, while maintaining the creativity, unique connections, thought process and wisdom of an expert. Even here, the ability to ask the right questions or prompts through specific inputs seems important. If you want good outputs, you may need to provide good inputs, apply experimentation and thinking.14
AI applications in HR are designed to streamline processes, enhance decision-making, and improve overall efficiency. Here are some common AI applications in HR:
Recruitment and Talent Acquisition
Resume Screening: AI algorithms can analyze resumes quickly and efficiently, identifying relevant qualifications, skills, and experience.
Chatbots for Initial Interaction: AI-powered chatbots can engage with job candidates, answer basic questions, and even conduct preliminary interviews, saving time for both candidates and HR professionals.
Predictive Analytics: AI can analyze historical data to predict which candidates are more likely to succeed in a particular role, improving the quality of hiring decisions.
Employee Onboarding
Virtual Assistants: AI-powered virtual assistants can guide new employees through the onboarding process, providing information on company policies, procedures, and answering common questions.
Employee Engagement
Pulse Surveys: AI can analyze employee feedback and sentiment from surveys and other sources to gauge overall engagement levels and identify areas for improvement.
Personalized Learning: AI can recommend personalized training and development programs based on an employee’s skills, performance, and career goals.
Performance Management:
Feedback and Recognition: AI can facilitate real-time feedback and recognition, helping managers provide timely acknowledgment of employee achievements.
Performance Predictions: Predictive analytics can help identify patterns in employee performance data, allowing HR to anticipate potential issues and take proactive measures.
HR Analytics:
Predictive Analytics for Turnover: AI can analyze various factors to predict which employees are at a higher risk of leaving the company, allowing HR to take preventive measures.
Workforce Planning: AI can assist in forecasting future workforce needs based on historical data and market trends.
Employee Assistance and Support:
Chatbots for HR Queries: AI-powered chatbots can handle routine HR queries, providing quick and accurate information to employees.
Wellness Programs: AI can support employee well-being by providing insights into stress levels, workload, and suggesting personalized wellness programs.
Diversity and Inclusion:
Bias Detection: AI algorithms can help identify and minimize unconscious biases in job descriptions, recruitment processes, and performance evaluations, promoting diversity and inclusion.
Compliance and Risk Management:
Monitoring Compliance: AI can assist in monitoring and ensuring compliance with HR policies and legal regulations, reducing the risk of non-compliance.
Implementing AI in HR requires careful consideration of ethical concerns, data privacy, and the potential impact on the employee experience. However, when used responsibly, AI can significantly enhance HR processes, allowing professionals to focus on strategic initiatives and creating a more engaging and efficient workplace.15
Sources:
1 Artificial intelligence and a new era of human resources; https://www.ibm.com/blog/artificial-intelligence-and-a-new-era-of-human-resources/
2 4 6 AI in HR: A Guide to Implementing AI in Your HR Organization; https://www.gartner.com/en/human-resources/topics/artificial-intelligence-in-hr
3 5 AI In Human Resources: The Time Is Now; https://www.oracle.com/a/ocom/docs/applications/hcm/oracle-ai-in-hr-wp.pdf
7 HR Transformation; https://www.rbl.net/insights/books/hr-transformation-building-human-resources-from-the-outside-in
8 Understanding the difference between reskilling, upskilling and new skilling; https://www.cornerstoneondemand.com/resources/article/difference-between-reskilling-upskilling-new-skilling/
9 Insight – Amazon scraps secret AI recruiting tool that showed bias against women; https://www.reuters.com/article/us-amazon-com-jobs-automation-insight/amazon-scraps-secret-ai-recruiting-tool-that-showed-bias-against-women-idUSKCN1MK08G/?utm_source=morning_brew
10 Does Your Company Use AI in Hiring? Better check your bias; https://www.hr-brew.com/stories/2023/05/19/does-your-company-use-ai-in-hiring-better-check-your-bias
11 The Path to Generative AI Value Begins with a Workforce Diagnostic; https://www.bcg.com/publications/2023/assessing-the-impact-of-generative-ai-on-workforce-productivity?utm_campaign=genai_bcgxamp;utm_content=202311_send3_aws2023amp;utm_description=featured_insightsamp;utm_geo=globalamp;utm_medium=emailamp;utm_source=espamp;utm_topic=aiamp;utm_usertoken=c88440b7c5ed0b6435b4a5af1ad86485213a6388amp;mkt_tok=Nzk5LUlPQi04ODMAAAGPv4vVMs6nLBPTHjS2FWbTPXieARUy-g2_7gDqhquR-oaUfGWTOkkMvqmBAbJ1MrOVA6rfMr_KjUVkPaccAXfby18cwcpRuqfyyXFYaAwH28E
12 Samsung bans use of generative AI tools like ChatGPT after April internal data leak; https://techcrunch.com/2023/05/02/samsung-bans-use-of-generative-ai-tools-like-chatgpt-after-april-internal-data-leak/
13 Generative AI and The Future of HR; https://www.mckinsey.com/capabilities/people-and-organizational-performance/our-insights/generative-ai-and-the-future-of-hr
14 How to Craft the Perfect ChatGPT Prompt; https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/how-craft-perfect-chatgpt-prompt-charlene-li-kowge/
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During many discussions with leaders and connections including those seeking leadership roles, the thought of sharing my notes from executive search experiences came to mind. This was really interesting experience coming from the outside, as a practitioner with some experience in consulting. For most people outside, the executive search world tends to be inaccessible and bit mysterious. Therefore, for the benefit of many who wonder, I thought of sharing my following observations and perspectives. There may of course be other varying views and opinions.
The executive search area also seems to be an expanded arena nowadays with varying degrees of search agency brands, quality and approaches. The top players continue to focus on retained search. In retained search, consultants are paid a portion of the search fees by the customer in advance for their focused efforts to hire for the role, with a high degree of certainty to closure. This would be structured in different stages.
On the other side, the contingent search approach tends to focus on fees payment by the customer after closing a role. Many players in contingent search space over the years have progressed up the value chain by asking for a nominal advance fees to close senior roles and provide minimum timeframe guarantees as the higher end search agencies would do. They have slowly expanded their own business pie through existing customer relationships.
During recent times, due to the breadth of players/experienced independent consultants, price sensitivity and risk management from a talent acquisition perspective, contingent search players seem to have gained a larger pie of the leadership search business. For some organizations, this also becomes a lower risk alternative to explore a leadership role search with an existing partner who may be already working with them on other roles.
The leading executive search brands still try to differentiate by staying focused on the top roles, retained search approach and developing strong relationships with customers and senior leaders. At the same time, they also work to expand their leadership networks to offer additional leadership services like coaching, consulting or organization development related elements, mostly through trusted partners with core competencies in respective areas.
General structure within executive search firms
A typical executive search firm team tends to be small and highly focused. A normal high-level structure consists of a research team, consultants of varying experiences who focus on the ground work for successful delivery of search assignments and senior consultants or partners who mainly focus on developing the business, while also leading the relationships and engagements. There would also be a small marketing or editorial team, to help build visibility and collaboration in the market. For those who consider moving from the corporate side to consulting or search organizations at senior levels, sales and customer relationships become core part of the responsibilities and often the big challenges.
1. As a customer, how could I know the quality of a search firm?
An easy bet and approach for an assessing customer is to look for the top search firms that have a global brand and have been around for a while. In practice though, irrespective of the brand, it would be important to understand the quality, experiences of the consultant who would directly work on the assignment, strength of the research team, overall approaches, expectations alignment on both sides regarding the actual process, culture fit with the firm and consultant, and details on deliverables.
At the senior levels, the more well-known firms tend to get better responses and perceived more positively from experienced leaders in established organizations who are potential candidates. They also tend to adopt a proactive, focused sourcing approach for strong passive candidates and don’t post the roles. The networks do matter on all sides. There may also be differences in approaches for firms.
2. If someone from a headhunting firm reached out to me, what does that mean?
Not everyone who tries to connect results in an immediate role. Sometimes, it may be for networking, marketing, business opportunities, initiatives that are trying to be cultivated while at other times, as part of early pipeline for potential talent pool at the start of a search. These connections can be two-way bridges and provide opportunities to build relationships over the longer term, even if the conversation would not be about a specific job. Many times, being part of initiatives can also be a win-win in terms of visibility and branding for the larger market. Just being curious about varying perspectives may also result in valuable learning.
Consultants tend to speak with many leaders and may hold interesting points of view, intelligence about the market dynamics. We also live in a highly connected and symbiotic world, with multiple overlapping connections. How one responds or behaves, tends to leave lasting impressions. Personal leadership brands do matter. If the opportunity to connect feels uninteresting or sense of low value, it would also be okay to politely communicate and retreat. Many times, unprofessional behaviours lead to uncomfortable scenarios on both sides.
3. I am looking for a change. How do I go about it with an executive search firm? How much does it help?
In my observation, the possibility of finding a role through one’s own connections and networks would be much higher than through a search firm. Search firms tend to have few senior roles with very specific client requirements in terms of competencies and experiences. While this may work out at times, the probability of everything matching at the right time require a high degree of coincidences. If one ends up getting into a search process, it also becomes really important to manage oneself professionally.
There is no harm in networking with consultants proactively through shared connections, events or assignments beforehand. It may be a better strategy to be visible in the market before the need arises. Many leaders tend to become internally focused with little time to connect outside and only think about the outside world. Many candidates also won’t receive a response while trying to connect with head hunters for a job.
Candidate responses tend to fall low on the list, especially for senior members. This may mostly happen because there is no immediate, relevant role in pipeline, focus on new assignments/business development and ensuring successful delivery of existing assignments. With the smaller teams and limited bandwidth, responding to candidates tends to take a back seat. For candidates, it is also worth noting that the professional search firms or employers don’t charge fees from the candidates during any search assignments. Professional search firms only bill the companies or their customers they support.
4. I am looking to move internationally. Could a leadership search firm help?
From my observation in India, the majority of leadership searches seem to be local or country specific in nature. For the bigger firms, even within a country, there may be multiple offices with regional or local focus. There may be very small number of searches where candidates may be sourced from other countries or through collaborative search projects involving more than one country offices.
In selected cases, companies may be open to look at returning citizens and support relocation (e.g., from the US to India). In few other cases, companies in certain regions like the Middle East may be open to high quality talent from larger markets like India. These roles tend to be very few and highly specialised.
The probability of moving internationally seems to be higher for employees who explore internally within multinational organizations. Most other international movements in my known networks seem to have happened through either first or second degree connections, personal networks or country residency options. The probability of moving internationally through a search firm seems comparatively low.
As general disclaimer, it would be helpful to note that firms work in different ways and my experiences have been influenced by related environments.
During recent weeks, I got into discussions with few parents who were thinking about career tracks to guide their children. The idea for writing on this topic came from one such discussion. This topic seems to be more active on the minds of many parents as their children get closer to the tenth and twelfth standards at school.
From my observations of working professionals and students, there are at least 3 fundamental elements while thinking about your child’s career.
1. Passion/genuine interest
This is probably the most critical element to consider. It’s normally easy to spot uninterested students in classrooms and employees in the workplaces across the world through their low commitment, engagement and efforts. While speaking with students in post graduate programs, it becomes easy to observe those who are genuinely engaged and interested (even when they are introverted). When individuals go into areas of low interest or are pushed by family, they tend to migrate to becoming average at learning/outputs and disengaged quickly. During long working careers, passion or genuine interest will drive one’s will and energy to keep going through the inevitable challenges and difficult times. Internal motivation also helps develop extra edge through proactive, continuous learning and growth over others.
2. Natural strengths, preferences and related tracks
Every individual has natural strengths and preferences in certain areas. It’s important to actively recognise, encourage, grow those strengths, figure out areas where these strengths can be applied naturally and actively. At the same time, it would be practical to think if those areas can lead to healthy compensation and life support. Sometimes, there may be adjoining work areas to explore and understand that require similar strengths. On the unhealthy side, many parents prioritise potential compensation or perks as the top point with good intentions but that may set their children up for potential unhappiness, disillusionment and immense stress in following years. Some tend to become miserable over time, feeling stuck, resulting in unhappiness and frustration across professional and personal environments.
An individual with a high degree of passion, interest and natural strengths has a much higher chance of getting noticed, becoming successful rather than working in areas where the above elements don’t exist (even when the tracks don’t seem very promising in the eyes of the world). This should not be about just finding the first job but rather thinking beyond into longer career tracks, meaning, impact and growth.
3. Clarity on areas of low interest
Even if one many not be aware of what to choose, it helps to be clear on what is not enjoyable or probably even hated by your child. These areas should be clearly avoided even when there’s lot of peer/social status pressure and seem to hold potential for high earnings or opportunities.
Many children may not be aware of their own strengths, preferences and related career tracks to explore. Schools can play a key role in that process by ensuring supporting resources, assessments, counseling and career guidance initiatives. Experimentation, getting exposure and exploration, when unclear should also be actively encouraged. Many times, lack of awareness of opportunities or career options become a big gap for students and parents. It’s important to start somewhere, even if small. If there is a sense of enjoyment and engagement, that’s a good work fit indicator. Externship and internship programs may help.
It is also always helpful to have few alternatives keeping in mind the above elements. Some experiences may lead to changing opinions on interest after a reality check.
Another helpful advice is to discuss actively with your network, experts in related areas and use all opportunities to understand more about different career tracks. Encourage your child to take accountability and responsibility to work hard in their chosen area of interest. When they feel the decision is predominantly based on their interest, their commitment and accountability tend to be much higher. That translates to a higher probability of success, engagement and enjoyment at work. There’s also a lot of supporting information available online.
From a broader perspective, when the world gets the right fit of passionate, highly engaged people in jobs (including seemingly boring or uninteresting jobs), the potential for achievement and engagement is huge. That also leads to enjoyable experiences for all stakeholders – leading to win-win outcome for society at large.
During my personal discussion, it was refreshing to see that my connection had noticed his daughter’s increasing passion and strength around culinary skills and was open to supporting her in that direction, while staying open to understanding alternatives and having a plan B based on her strengths. That approach increases the probability of success and thriving in her career.
“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.”
—Oprah Winfrey
There is no one perfect path to meaning or joy. There are multiple paths and we travel through our own paths of meaning and purpose. Every journey is special, in our own minds and hearts. There is no need or reason to compare with others. The end of a journey may be the same but the experiences are very different. We are the only ones who can appreciate the depth and breadth of our own experiences and journeys.
We are on our unique journeys. Each one of us has a really interesting story that could be made into a movie – the movie of our life. That involves happiness, joy, sadness, loss, success, failures, relationships, frustrations, struggles, pain, pleasure, meaning….
We evolve through our lives based on all our experiences and choices. There are conscious choices and there are times when circumstances or inner voice nudges us in certain directions. We cross paths with many people through our lifetimes. Some memories, attachments stay longer, and others start dwindling faster with time. The ones that I remember most are times of joy, unique experiences, deep connections, challenges, pain or vulnerability. Many times, memories are brought back through people or other associations.
As the lead character or protagonist in our own movies, we have been there throughout and are the only ones who can understand our evolution through reflections. Others will most probably not share or relate to the same feelings. They may also relate to the different versions of the lead character that they have experienced at different touchpoints. Expectations may vary accordingly. Through this journey, we ideally discover our authentic selves, pure inner voices more and more. Based on some accounts, this movie may play for us at the end of our journeys.
Every journey is interesting, beautiful, precious, unique and meaningful in its own way. Only if every movie could be seen… There is always time to reflect, cherish, find more meaning and joy.
Have you taken the time to reflect, cherish and celebrate your journey?
“If God wanted the sky to be empty, He would not have given birds wings to fly.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo (goodreads)
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We live in a world where there are many who claim to be experts or share expert opinions on multiple topics. The amount and impact of ‘pseudo-experts’ seem to be increasing. On all forms of media, lots of expert opinions on varied topics are shared constantly and many people buy into them and trust quickly without realising the quality of information, the individual who is sharing or the actual source. As a result, low quality or unreliable perspectives find lots of eyeballs and mindspace.
I wanted to share 3 tips that have helped me in figuring out right experts, better quality information and perspectives.
1. Understand background and experience, both of the expert and the source
Look for the background, expertise and experiences of the individual(s) in the relevant areas. The quality, depth and breadth of those experiences and their contributions track record over time also matter. Look for how deeply they may have studied that area and shared quality insights. A basic search on the internet or LinkedIn can help. Do note that the number of connections or titles don’t translate to being an expert.
Ideally, there needs to be a mix of conceptual/theoretical and practical experiences for high quality insights and perspectives. Being an expert in one area does not translate automatically to being an expert in other areas. We tend to see that error or bias quite a bit. It also helps to observe who have liked/endorsed them or their insights or shared further. Credibility has to be developed over time and with consistency.
If studies and researches are quoted in articles or conversations, it always helps to see who or where the research was undertaken. Ask the logical questions about the relevance and environment of those studies. The quality of the institution or individuals who undertook the study can be an important factor in the validity of results that are quoted.
2. Openness to alternate views and discussions
The best experts are open to listening, discussing, learning and debating alternate or contradicting views because they understand there are multiple variables to explore, some that they may not have foreseen or others that may be worth learning or engaging further. An open mindset to a quality discussion and exploration improves the outlook of an expert perspective. Keep in mind that we generally tend to read and believe in topics that we want to believe in or have an internal bias towards. We relate better to certain conversational and writing styles.
3. Observe patiently and do your own research over time
Hold off from jumping to conclusions from one expert opinion or view, unless you have done your homework and looked across multiple expert views or studies. The predictiveness of quality is better if you have been tracking someone’s work over time. Even then, it helps to maintain a broad perspective and expand your senses to multiple experts. If the opinion relates to your own area of work, it helps to reflect on your experiences and the links to the perspectives shared.
As a result of all these, the quality of your insight and perspectives will improve over time and chances of being misled will reduce substantially. Your quality of thinking, actions and growth will be on a better curve.
Have other approaches worked for you?
“Logic, it is often said, is the study of valid arguments. It is a systematic attempt to distinguish valid arguments from invalid arguments.” – William H. Newton-Smith
Logic: An Introductory Course (goodreads)
About Tojo Eapen
Leadership Coach, Consultant, HR Leader with diverse, global experiences (U.S.A, Europe, APAC).
Master of Human Resource Management from Rutgers University, New Jersey, U.S.A. Recipient of the U.S. Garden State Council SHRM HR Leadership Scholarship.
Bachelor of Technology in Civil Engineering from College of Engineering, Trivandrum, India.
Certifications: MBTI, Hogan, RBL Leadership Code, SHL 360, Team Management Profile, NeuroLeadership Results & Team Coaching.
Facilitated coaching sessions, workshops and programs for Nokia (Helsinki, London, Berlin, Global/Virtual), Rio Tinto (New Delhi), QuEST Global (Global/Virtual, Bangalore, Kerala), Matrix Partners India, Women Inclusive In Technology (India).
Mission: Enable healthy, purposeful, and impactful organizations, through leadership knowledge and wisdom.
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