{"id":921,"date":"2025-01-22T07:44:34","date_gmt":"2025-01-22T07:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/?p=921"},"modified":"2025-01-22T07:45:09","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T07:45:09","slug":"emotional-maturity-in-leaders","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/emotional-maturity-in-leaders\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Maturity In Leaders"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There is a 2011 HBR article with the title, &#8220;We Need More Mature Leaders&#8221;.<br><br>It definitely seems to feel that way while seeing many news articles and discussions nowadays.<br><br>While we can say a lot about mature leaders, how do we observe immature leaders\/leadership? Here are some notes from &#8220;Understanding Leadership Maturity (John Mattone Blog, July 2024)&#8221;. The list is not comprehensive, there are surely many more. This also indicates where getting leadership coaching early could be helpful.<br>&#8212;<br>&#8220;Recognizing the signs of immature leadership is crucial for addressing and correcting these behaviors before they lead to significant negative outcomes.<br><br>Immature leaders are often emotionally reactive and have poor interpersonal skills, which can harm their teams and organizations.<br><br>If a leader does not possess maturity, the below signs may show:<br>* The impression that they simply do not care about the opinions or feedback of other colleagues.<br>* Refusal to listen to others and remaining stuck in their own ways.<br>* Constantly interrupting others without allowing them to speak about new ideas or feedback.<br>* Leaning on emotions, rather than facts, during challenges or obstacles within the workplace.<br>* Not paying attention to how they come off to others and how this impacts them.<br>* Using unclear messaging and communication creates confusion within the workplace, which could lead to conflict and mistakes.&#8221;<br>&#8212;<br><br>Some leaders don&#8217;t realise they need help and drive ahead, blissfully unaware. Others know but don&#8217;t care or use excuses, regarding why they can&#8217;t change but are still great\/successful (while their teams suffer). There is much hope for the category of leaders (and their organisations) who are self-aware, identify the leadership behavioural gaps within themselves and work on getting better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a 2011 HBR article with the title, &#8220;We Need More Mature Leaders&#8221;. It definitely seems to feel that way while seeing many news articles and discussions nowadays. While we can say a lot about mature leaders, how do we observe immature leaders\/leadership? Here are some notes from &#8220;Understanding Leadership Maturity (John Mattone Blog, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3,2],"tags":[18,19],"class_list":["post-921","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-coaching","category-leadership","tag-coaching","tag-leadership","post-preview"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=921"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":922,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions\/922"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=921"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=921"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tojoeapen.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=921"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}